Byline by George Odogwu
Author and women’s advocate, Vivian Okoye, has unveiled her latest literary work, “Unlocking the Drama in Womanhood“, a book she describes as both a personal journey and a therapy guide for women navigating pain, betrayal, and identity struggles.
Speaking on the inspiration behind the book, Okoye explained that years of interacting with women revealed a troubling pattern—many were “bleeding in the dark,” masking deep emotional wounds with silence.
“God has given me a push to expose the wound so it can heal,” she said. “This book is for teenage girls, for women who feel left out or hurt, and even for men who care about women. I want women to finish reading this and feel empowered, confident, and ready to spread healing instead of hurt.”
Okoye argues that much of the “drama” among women stems from gossip, rivalry, and comparison, which destroy potentially supportive friendships. Instead, she advocates a shift in mindset: “When one woman shines, we all see better.”
The author highlights themes such as identity crisis, the “Queen-Bee” syndrome, and the fear that another woman’s success diminishes one’s own. According to her, culture plays a big role in shaping how women see themselves, and while traditions hold value, they must not restrict women’s potential.
Anchoring her message on faith, Okoye references Genesis 1:27, reminding women of their worth as image-bearers of God. Each chapter of the book includes prayer prompts and scriptural insights designed to guide readers through self-discovery and healing.
“Healing is the master key,” she insists. “Without it, we polish the outside of a cracked vase. True transformation comes only when the root problems are addressed.”
Drawing from personal experience, Okoye admits the writing process was therapeutic, exposing her own struggles with envy and relationships. She also revealed the emotionally draining challenge of writing about mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, noting that many such relationships require genuine reconciliation.
Despite the challenges, Okoye says the feedback has already been encouraging: “Women are healing and finding help. That’s what matters most to me.”
